Love Tips For Men and Women

We all want to find love and we all deserve to be loved but many men and women struggle to find it or keep it so here some tips that will help…

Tip 1) Love will not fall in your lap
So many people whine and complain about how no one loves them or how they where not meant to ever find love. This is complete and utter BS and is really just an excuse for lack of effort. Life isn’t a movie and although coincidences happen it is silly to live life thinking that love will just happen. You have to be proactive and you have to get out there. I am not saying you have to go searching for love but you need to be meeting and interacting with the opposite sex all the time, this is how you will eventually find a person who you click with. Sure it can still happen with you putting in 0 effort but its unlikely and your only hurting your odds.

Tip 2) Love has to be mutual
So many people fall in “love” with someone but that person won’t have the same feelings. Its very important to understand that this is NOT love because love is ALWAYS mutual. If your stuck in this situation then understand that your simply infatuated and are lusting the other person and if they do not feel the same way then its time to move on with your life. Don’t think sticking around waiting for someone will win their love because it won’t and your only hurting yourself and lowering your chances of finding the right person who will love you back.

Tip 3) Love is based on attraction
I am not talking about physical attraction here, it has nothing to do with looks. I am also not talking about unconditional love like love for your family members or pets. I am talking about the stuff that makes us fall in love with the opposite sex. This is purely based on attraction, its the way that person makes you feel when your around them and again it has very little to do with PHYSICAL attraction. Get that out of your head right now! Its crucial that you get as much understanding of how attraction actually works because having that knowledge will help you find and most importantly KEEP love. All love starts with attraction and grows from there so do yourself a favor and educate yourself on attraction by getting out there and reading everything you can. Once you have the knowledge you will be much more prepared and much more likely to find the love you’ve been looking for.