Tips On Finding Love For Single Men And Women

Millions of single men and women struggle their whole lives when it comes to finding love. Many think that they will never find love because their not rich enough or not good looking enough or not famous enough. The truth is that love has very little to do with looks, riches, fame or power and is based purely on attraction.

Most people think of physical attraction when they hear the word attraction but as I already mentioned physical appearance has very little to do with finding love, of course it helps but its only about 10% and even if your fat and ugly you can find love.

So what is attraction and how is it going to help me find love?

I like to break down attraction into two parts. The first part is confidence and the second part is influence. Confidence is key because every single person finds it attractive. It as if we where hard wired to be attracted to it and perhaps we where since confident people prove to be better providers in every sense. Confidence is the reason you see fat and ugly people dating beautiful women and I am not talking about fat, ugly AND rich… I am talking about the guy on the street with the minimum wage job and beer gut who everyone looks at and wonders how the hell he ever got the girl.

The same concept can apply to a good looking guy with a girl who is slightly over weight or isn’t all that special yet seems to have that amazing looking guy that every other girl drools over.

The second part of attraction is influence. Now influence is very important and it works by the way people perceive us and think about us and how we make them FEEL. For example, if every time you hang out with me we do something enjoyable where your having a blast and its always this way then every time you think of me when I am not around will be positive, or if my name ever pops into your head you will think positive. You will attribute happiness with me. I have now influenced the way you think when you think about happiness because I got you to relate back to me.

If your serious about finding love and have really been struggling then its time you educate yourself on these types of concepts. There is a ton of great material out there that really delves into this stuff and breaks it down, much of it is linked to from this website. Read as much of it as you can and you might be finding love a little sooner then you thought