Tips On How To Approach Women

Approaching women can be very frightening for most men. It is the first and most crucial step in escalating from friendship to dating to great relationship and so forth. Here are some tips to help you approach women…

Tip 1) Don’t think about it
If you see a girl and shes cute and you want to say something then don’t give yourself time to think for more than 3 seconds about the decision. As soon as you get past 3 seconds your brain will start to overload with all the possible things that may go wrong which will ultimately lead to anxiety and you’ll end up never approaching the girl.

Tip 2) Start simple
Your first goal should be to just say hello. Maybe ask for the time, or for directions… these are dead end questions but will get you comfortable just getting the words out of your mouth. The whole idea is to be comfortable and come of confident. You need to learn to walk before you can run and asking for numbers should not be your goal till you’ve at least said hello to a minimum of 100 women.

Tip 3) Watch your body language
The whole reason for the above step is to get practice and be comfortable. If you’ve been saying hello to a lot of women then make a mental of your body language when doing so. Where are your hands when talking to women? How is your body positioned? Are you standing straight or slumped? Are you facing her and looking at her? Are you fidgeting? This is important because often times we have no idea what our body is doing and if you have nervous habits women will pick up on them and will respond in a less positive way. A good idea is to mirror her body language to start.

Tip 4) Smile
It is extremely important that you smile when talking to women. Remember its not just you that has to be comfortable but they have to know your not a freak and that its safe to talk to you. A smile can disarm a persons natural defenses because its very non-threatening. Make sure you practice to smile so your not forcing or faking it. People can tell when your smile is forced.

Tip 5) Escalate
If you have the above 4 down then its time to learn about escalation and attraction. This will ensure that you can go from saying hello to number closing to actually having the girl pick up and respond positively to your call. This is to vast of a topic to discuss in one post but is essential to your progress. There are plenty of ebooks on the subject of attraction and escalation. They contain lots of great material and give step by step guides so you know what to do in just about every situation. They also contain some really good eye opening information based on scientific study, you can check it out by clicking on the links below.